Froggie is Four Months Old!

     Froggie is four months old!
     She chats away with herself, her toys, anyone in a fifty foot radius really... She constantly has her hands in her mouth, or her blankie. She has the best smile and her hair is starting to curl. I think she's starting to cut her bottom front teeth so she's a little moody in the morning and evening and we bought a few teethers tonight to see if they help. Here are some pictures of Froggie:

Feeding Froggie

** Froggie is breastfed so today is mostly about nursing in the harness. She does occasionally take a bottle so I'll talk about that some too.**

***** There are pictures in this entry but everything is covered I promise!*****

     The biggest struggle we have faced so far is feeding. It began on day one of having the harness and only now, a month into wearing it, am I confident we have figured it out.
     Day one was a mess! We couldn't get comfortable. I think Froggie ate just enough to make it to her next feeding and it didn't seem to matter whether she was nursing or taking a bottle. At one point during the day, while a co-worker of mine tried to give her a bottle, I had to undo the leg straps so she could stretch out and eat in peace.
     Day one included a lot of learning all around, I'll tell you all about diapering some time soon, but she and I figured out how feeding worked best for us and stuck with it.
     She seems to do best laying down, either across her Boppy or in bed so that her legs aren't squished together. Unfortunately, this is not always an available option. I am blessed to be able to have her and Big Brother at work with me so I mostly nurse her there in a rather comfy glider but I don't take our Boppy to and from work every day.
     So I typically sit with my right leg crossed over my left (regardless of which side I'm nursing on) and prop her up on my arm with her belly facing me. This usually leaves her top leg hanging in the air. If I were her I'd be horribly uncomfortable but she seems happy with it so that's what we stick with.

     At home with the Boppy I just lay her on her back and she turns her head to eat. She's laid flat with her legs spread out and having her turn her head helps to prevent issues with her neck. I can't remember the name of it right now but babies in harness' can be at a higher risk of Flat Head Syndrome and favoring turning their head to one side over another. Froggie also eats this way at night and we just lay in bed.

     One mom on Facebook said that she just had her child sit in her lap facing her to eat that way. I suppose this would work for an older child who could support themselves better and it's similar to how Froggie eats when she's in a carrier.
     Well that's feeding Froggie in a nutshell.

Rashes, Bruises and a Harness - Oh My!

     Yesterday I watched as one thing after another turned "weird" with Froggie.
     After several cooler days the temperatures crept back up into the 70's and are expected to keep rising. I noticed some red marks on Froggie's neck. Then they were on the back of her head and I could see them through her hair. Then they were EVERYWHERE.

     Heat rash...
     We had dealt with it last week when it was hot by sticking her in the tub and, simple as that, it was gone. Well at work there was no tub to put her in and it wasn't even that hot! I fed her to make sure she was well hydrated and she fell asleep nursing so I put her in her crib. She slept for awhile and woke up pretty happy but started to fuss shortly after waking. When I checked on her she yawned and I noticed a mark on her tongue!

The mark

     She had a legitimate bruise on her tongue! She doesn't even have any teeth yet! Don't get me wrong, my son cut teeth a few days after he turned 4 months old and Froggie is clearly working on at least one considering the amount of chewing and drool that I notice but there aren't any in there yet.
     The heat rash faded as she cooled off with a bath and some baby powder. I  haven't tried cornstarch yet, which was a recommendation from a Facebook group about Wheaton-Pavlik Harness. "The mark" faded as well, by this morning it was only a slight discoloration. It seems as though she clamped her tongue between her gums and bruised it. This apparently is very common though I don't recall it ever happening with Big Brother.
     I'm sure these are just the beginning of the bumps, bruises, marks and issues we will experience with Froggie but everything seems compounded by the harness. Especially the heat rash and we're in for some hot days for the remainder of the week!

Birthday Celebration & Dealing with the Public

     Today is my birthday. I am officially closer to 30 than 20; I can't even try to say I'm half way between anymore either! I don't mind birthdays nor am I one of those women who lie about their age (intentionally anyway, there have been days I have legitimately forgotten how old I am). I also don't typically do much for my birthday.

     I woke up to Froggie smiles and got myself ready. My voice decided to make an appearance after being pretty much absent for the last four days. The day started off great, aside from the rain.

     It rained all morning but we packed up and headed to work/school. Like I said I work in a day care/Preschool and the kids come with me. A few hours after I got to work my friend text me and asked when I was done. She showed up about 15 minutes later with a Carmel Macchiato for me (my son would say "carmel mack-e-o-toe is coffee mommy!") at the perfect time to watch all of the kids at work and my co-workers sing me happy birthday. Check out the delicious cake my boss baked!

My boss made me cake!

Being sung to at work (with Froggie and Big Brother)

     Hubby, Big Brother, Froggie and I went to Cracker Barrel for dinner and it was lovely. The food was good and Big Brother was well behaved despite deciding "I want chicken nuggets instead" after getting his macaroni and cheese. We don't go out often and it was nice to spend dinner time as a family at a restaurant while it wasn't super busy.

Froggie blowing spit bubbles at dinner.

     This is where the harness comes in... 

     When you have a child who is different going out in public means you get certain looks. Whether you have a child in a harness, cast, helmet, etc. or you have a child who looks differently than other children or behaves differently from other children you get a look. If you've been there you know what it is. It says "what's wrong with your baby" or "you poor woman" it casts judgement that your child looks or does what they do because of you or that they have to wear a harness/cast/helmet/etc. because of something you did. I don't know if the look is given on purpose or on impulse.
     Occasionally you will come into contact with the brave person who will say "What's on her legs?" or "What's wrong with baby?" sometimes while giving you that look. I've taken to saying "She has hop dysplasia" which typically just gets me a blank stare and "oh ok". I take this as my invitation to explain Froggie's specific case and sometimes people will change the subject but they usually ask more questions. I'm ok with this because "how long does she have to wear it?" and "she must have had a rough entry into this world." give me more to talk about. I can tell them after 3 months she'll be re-evaluated and may need more invasive treatment if there is no improvement. I can tell them the factors for hip dysplasia are 1.) being a first born child, 2.) being female, 3.) being breech, 4.) being delivered via c-section.
     Long story short, I don't mind the looks and the questions because I can spread the information I've gathered about a cause that is now very dear to me. Something that, until a month ago, I didn't know much about either.
     After we got home from dinner we sat and watched the weather man interrupt normal broadcasting in order to alert us that there was a tornado warning. I opened my cards and thanks to my family and co-workers I will be well caffeinated for  the foreseeable future. After being sucked in to the broadcast on TV and watching the storm pass east of us we sliced up my ice cream cake and dug in. 

My cake.

Hoppy Memorial Day

     Happy Memorial Day! Today we honor and remember our Veterans who are no longer with us. Those who fought to keep us safe and paid with their lives to do so. I hope that if you thank a Veteran today they will politely remind you that today is not for them, but for their brothers and sisters in uniform who were unable to return home to their family and friends. Today we remember.

My cousin's memorial @ Ft. Bragg

     It is my belief that those who have gone before us wouldn't want us to stop living. Our Memorial Day was pretty low key, no picnic or parties but we did decide to head to the zoo for the afternoon. Froggie was great and spent 90% of our time at the zoo in the carrier. I'm not going to write much more but here are some pictures from our day.

Hubby and Big Brother

Froggie and I at the zoo

Big Brother showing off his penny

Big Brother making music

Froggie wanted to check everything out

Tired Big Brother and his icee treat

Travel and the Harness

     I mentioned travel in yesterday's blog and thought I'd say a little more about it.
     Right now Froggie is still in an infant carrier that snaps into a base in the car. between her harness and cloth diapers the straps can be a little tight if she's not sat back in the  seat the right way. Because of this we keep tossing around the idea of moving Froggie into a rear-facing car seat that has a wider seat.
     The International Hip Dysplasia Institute has a whole page about car seat and carrier recommendations. They advise the use of equipment that allows a baby's hips to spread appropriately and not be pushed together or placed at unnatural angles.

     Today we ventured out to see family and friends and there's one day left of our long weekend. Tomorrow's a wild card though since everyone is off but we made no plans.

A little Froggie during tummy time this afternoon.

Wedding Bells

     Memorial Day weekend has kicked off and ours is jammed full of running around.
     Travel is pretty easy with Froggie since she's still so little; however, it's becoming a little tricky to get her straps on appropriately. We may be upgrading Big Brother to a high back booster and then moving Froggie into Big Brother's big kid carseats since they're wider.
     Hubby was part of a wedding this afternoon and the kids and I went. Big Brother was chatty through the entire service! Luckily everyone seems to be entertained by him and most of the attendees had children of their own. Actually, Big Brother is a typical 2 year-old and talks most of the time and moves ALL of the time so this afternoon wasn't out of character at all.

A sleepy little wedding guest

     Froggie slept through the service and was passed around between the bride and groom (who are her Godparents) and then into the Ergobaby during the picnic reception that followed. She is so content and happy and doesn't seem to care who holds her as long as she can either see what's going on or lay her head on you (depending on how sleepy she is).

Happy Memorial Day weekend from Froggie

     Well we're off to bed so that we can move on to our next busy day for the weekend.